"The key is to start wanting things that you can get. And then make it happen." Says a man who absolutely radiates the kind of confidence that says that's exactly what he does. It wasn't always the case. He was a young farmboy coming to a dangerous city full of exciting things that he never thought he could get.

"Can't have your friends right now, that's true, but you can make new friends. Handsome and charming friends." Jesper points to himself with a wink. He likes people, he is always likely to offer to be someone they can count on when it comes to these things. And she looks like she could use a friend.

"I'm usually the extrovert all my introverted friends move around so I get it." Jesper doesn't necessarily want to be the center of attention, he's happy to be standing there chatting with her instead of dancing or partying. "I don't really think we have any drinking games, you might have to suggest one or two."