"I know it must be difficult for you to understand that I was raised to learn how to keep a house, to be a wife, to bear children. That is how it is in Westeros. It is not that way here which is unusual for me but I think, in many ways, it is nicer."

Sansa frowns a bit, embarrassed she's even talking about all of this.

"It was not a role I was ashamed of until certain events came to pass. I would have loved to have been the wife to someone kind and handsome. Unfortunately, other than you, I have not met many handsome men who are also kind."